Michael Gandolfini’s Unlikely Connection to His Father

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A week prior to Christmas 2023, I found myself stretched out on the floor of my Airbnb in Los Angeles, my phone affixed to the ceiling overhead. With no one available to assist me on that specific day for a self-taped scene requiring me to be prone, I improvised. The tape, my phone, and the ceiling became unlikely collaborators in capturing my performance.

It was quite unexpected to be requested for an audition so near the holiday season, and his setup wasn’t perfect. However, the opportunity with the production titled Warfare was something he couldn’t afford to let slip by.

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It took him by surprise to get asked to audition so close to the holidays, and his setup wasn’t ideal. But the project called Warfare was too enticing to turn down.

Warfare,” released this weekend by A24, is a reenactment of a specific day during the Battle of Ramadi in the Iraq War as experienced by co-director Ray Mendoza, who was part of the Navy SEALs. The story follows Mendoza’s platoon as they tried to evacuate two of their comrades who were severely injured in an IED explosion. This film is a collaborative effort with Alex Garland, known for directing “Civil War” and “Ex Machina.” Unlike other war films, this one is presented in real-time, with minimal cinematic enhancements to provide a raw, unfiltered account of the events as they unfolded. The film will not feature any dramatic music or dialogue, aiming for a stark, realistic portrayal of the situation.

In Gandolfini’s words, “I believe I met two incredibly truthful individuals, and our conversation was clear-cut.” He was referring to his first encounter with Mendoza and Garland. They shared details about their project, titled Warfare. Specifically, they wanted to create a true-to-life portrayal of the incident that left Elliott Miller, one of the injured SEALs who couldn’t remember the event, with an accurate account. The filmmakers also laid out their plans for the shoot, which included the actors carrying 60 to 70 pounds of equipment throughout full days of filming, and on some occasions, helping the actors playing the injured SEALs carry their props.

Gandolfini shared that the discussion revolved around his physical preparation, focusing on both strength training and exercise routines. He clarified, ‘I don’t hit the gym daily, I don’t diet rigorously, and I’m not naturally built that way.’ However, he was impressed by the respect shown towards him, especially considering his struggles in these areas. Garland made it clear that he wasn’t seeking a transformation of Gandolfini’s physique. Instead, Garland simply wanted assurance that Gandolfini could carry 60 pounds on his back and run for extended periods.

Between being chosen for the movie role and when filming began, Gandolfini had just two months to get ready. His trainer was an experienced Marine, as Gandolfini remembers, “About two weeks in, he told me I would be running a five-mile run with 23 pounds on my back the next day. I replied, ‘I can’t do that!’ To which he responded, ‘You will do it – and you’ll do it every morning now.’

Besides developing his physical prowess, the 25-year-old shares that the training also molded an intangible aspect he carried into his portrayal as McDonald. He explains, “Any self-doubt or thoughts of quitting were absent. These men are incredibly resilient, kind, and loyal. They never give up. I had to learn and cultivate that part of myself.

After completing their training, they all, including Will Poulter, Cosmo Jarvis, Joseph Quinn, Kit Connor, and D’Pharaoh Woon A Tai, joined a three-week boot camp. On the initial day, they simultaneously shaved their heads and then commenced practicing exercises on a set constructed on an old World War II airplane runway near London’s outskirts. There were no trailers available; instead, everyone prepared together.

Everyone involved was incredibly humble, gifted, eager, ready, and eagerly anticipating their role. Then came the burden of what it all meant,” says Gandolfini, who has recently appeared in Marvel’s ‘Daredevil: Born Again’. “This is the first time that my profession has ever had a direct impact on reality: To depict Elliot’s experience. I’m naturally quite anxious, and I find relief when I can help or focus on someone else rather than myself. And that was the case from the start.

In the storyline, Tony Soprano’s character (Gandolfini) portrays a man named McDonald, who usually communicates with military aircraft as part of the Air Naval Gunfire Liaison Company (ANGLICO). However, during the confusion caused by the explosion, he loses his ability to do so. In this chaotic situation, without an official job title, McDonald becomes the one tending to Elliot, using whatever medical knowledge he remembers from basic training. Even in a baffling series of events that might be hard for regular people to understand, it’s Gandolfini’s moving portrayal of McDonald’s determination to help amidst the chaos that resonates most with audiences. Through the turmoil surrounding them, McDonald finds ways to offer assistance using whatever skills he has at his disposal.

In contrast, both of Gandolfini’s grandfathers served in the armed forces, whereas his late father, James Gandolfini (the actor), collaborated with the Wounded Warrior Project. He visited Iraq and Afghanistan to interact with active military personnel and veterans. One year, as Gandolfini recounts, his dad sent watches to wounded soldiers. “It turned out that Elliot received one of those watches,” the actor says, “I didn’t know until Elliot showed me a photo of this watch, and Joe Hildebrand, another SEAL injured during the events depicted in Warfare, approached and mentioned, ‘Your dad sent us watches when we were wounded in 2006.'” This revelation brought back a heartwarming connection to his father for Gandolfini, as well as a bond with Elliot, Joe, and Ray.

Filmmakers aimed to create an authentic portrayal of war on screen, offering veterans a visual reference when they struggle to express their experiences. Historically, Hollywood has often dramatized war with artistic additions that can glorify war. As Gandolfini explains, this film provides an honest portrayal of warfare, one that leaves the audience feeling the gravity and consequences. Since it’s truthful, he believes it’s impossible to leave without questioning the decision to engage in such actions.

The actors, led by Gandolfini, managed to excel beyond just acting skillfully during the demanding filming process, as they had objectives beyond delivering good performances. He expressed that this freedom allowed them to push boundaries and take the production to greater heights because they were not confined by their own thoughts.

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2025-04-11 20:25