Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

As a hopeless romantic who has spent countless hours engrossed in the world of television, I must say that these gentlemen have truly captured my heart! From Anthony Bridgerton’s unwavering devotion to his wife, reminding me of the kind of love I aspire for, to Ricky Ricardo’s ability to handle Lucy’s schemes with grace and humor – these characters are the epitome of what a loving husband should be.


It turns out that while I’m not exactly a die-hard rom-com fan due to their often excessive cheese factor, certain on-screen characters have managed to capture my heart from both movies and television shows. These fictional gentlemen have unfortunately raised my expectations so high that they’ve made real-life relationships seem less appealing. Despite being in a long-term relationship, I still find myself drawn to these fictional characters, so today let’s explore the top ones who truly sweep me off my feet.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Chandler Bing (Friends)

I know that out of everyone in the Friends cast, people talk about Joey being the cutest or however you want to play it, but for me, it’s always been Chandler. I don’t think there’s ever been a better interpretation of best friends to lovers than him with Monica, and I swear to God, he loves her so much. In today’s world, it’s rare to find someone as loving as Chandler Bing. 

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Graham Simpkins (The Holiday)

1. It’s no secret that many find Jude Law appealing, but in a more genuine context, Graham Simpkins from the movie “The Holiday” stands out as an exceptional film boyfriend. He is open with his emotions, kind-hearted, and manages to maintain an attractive appearance even while baring his soul. Each time I spot him on my screen, it’s a reminder that Christmas is here once more.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Kevin (Shameless)

Without a doubt, “Shameless” is one of Showtime’s standout series, but what makes it exceptional lies in its characters, particularly Kev. His unwavering affection for Veronica is evident as he follows her lead or fulfills her desires, no matter how bizarre or impractical they may seem. However, beneath this seemingly absurd behavior lies a heart full of love – and that’s what truly matters in the end, if we’re being truthful.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Ian Miller (My Big Fat Greek Wedding)

As a gamer, I’d say: Any fellow, regardless of his background, who’s open to embracing all the customs and regulations that come with being in a Greek Orthodox family, diving headfirst into a vibrant and emotionally charged clan, is a guy I’d consider worthy of affection. Let me tell you, from personal experience dating someone Greek Orthodox, this movie provides an incredibly accurate portrayal of the rollercoaster ride it can be – and trust me, Ian Miller exemplifies genuine love in the process.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Gomez (The Addams Family)

Any portrayal of Gomez, whether it be older versions or Luis Guzmán from the Wednesday cast, sets our standards so high. There is no other man in movies and TV who loves his wife more than Gomez loves Morticia. That’s the kind of love that we take to the grave – and it’s something that they clearly intend to do as well. 

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Troy Bolton (High School Musical Franchise)

As a self-confessed die-hard fan of Troy Bolton from the High School Musical series, I’ve got to say, he was an ideal teenage heartthrob. Sure, he had his share of self-centered moments – after all, we all did something silly during our teens. But what really set him apart was his genuine concern for his friends and, most importantly, Gabriella. He always seemed to be working behind the scenes, trying to find a solution that would keep everyone content. That kind of dedication is truly admirable.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Flynn Rider (Tangled)

Oh, Flynn, it’s incredible how deeply you impacted me back when I was around twelve. You were the embodiment of the kind of characters I found myself falling for in movies and television. Your selfless act of cutting off Rapunzel’s hair to free her from Mother Gothel is a testament to true love. That kind of sacrifice is what love is all about, isn’t it?

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Jesse (Full House)

At one point or another in many girls’ lives, they found themselves smitten by the charming Jesse from Full House, a show known for its good-looking cast. However, it was Jesse who stood out as an exceptional dreamboat, and John Stamos brought him to life flawlessly on screen. It’s hard to beat that kind of appeal.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Augustus Waters (The Fault In Our Stars)

At the tender age of fourteen, a character named Augustus Waters from the movie “The Fault in Our Stars” deeply touched my heart. His thoughtful demeanor and consideration for others left an indelible mark on me, and the film’s conclusion was particularly painful to endure. He embodied empathy and understanding in a way that few characters do.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Prince Philip (Sleeping Beauty)

He literally slayed a dragon for Aurora. He got off his horse and took on a whole mythical beast. You can’t raise your standards higher than that. Honestly, he’s underrated when it comes to Disney princes. 

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Charlie (The Perks Of Being A Wallflower)

From my perspective, I’ve never come across a more tender spirit than the one embodied by Charlie in “The Perks of Being a Wallflower.” He may not fit the typical definition of a heartthrob, but his profound sensitivity and deep concern for others leave an indelible mark on me. It’s this quality that makes me yearn for someone like him, and I can only imagine how these feelings might have evolved as he grew through life’s experiences.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Kristoff (Frozen)

As we eagerly anticipate more “Frozen” films, let’s be candid: Kristoff stands out as one of Disney’s finest princes, not because he’s royal or wears fancy clothes, but because he’s genuine. He’s an ordinary guy who cherishes his reindeer and his work, and it’s evident that he deeply cares for Anna. At times, this simple devotion is all one needs.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Matt Flamhaff (13 Going On 30)

For quite some time, I, an ardent admirer of the enchanting movie “13 Going On 30” and its talented cast, have considered myself Matt Flamhaff’s devoted companion. He’s a steadfast and kind-hearted character who always speaks his mind, even when Jenna and he haven’t been in touch for years within the film’s narrative. I must confess, my admiration for him runs deep.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Simon Bassett (Bridgerton)

Initially when Bridgerton debuted in 2020, it appeared that everyone’s attention was centered on Simon Bassett. Despite not appearing in the series since the first season, he remains incredibly handsome and has managed to overcome his past traumas in order to be with the woman he loves and provide her with a longed-for child. They may have their flaws, but I believe they complement each other well, and she played a crucial role in helping him grow into a better person.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Noah Calhoun (The Notebook)

Noah, the character from The Notebook, embodies patience as he longs for the opportunity to be with his beloved. This ardent desire transcends everything else in his world, which is why viewers find themselves moved to tears when watching the movie. His devotion is so profound that it seems almost timeless, despite his humble origins. This tale underscores the boundless nature of love.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Jake Perry (Sweet Home Alabama)

Oh, it’s truly heartwarming to see young children forming friendships, experiencing love, quarrels, and reunions. Jake Perry embodies this storyline beautifully, with his tenacity reminiscent of Melanie’s, yet he manages to keep pace with her in a way no one else does. To this day, his affection for her remains unwavering. Watching this movie simply fills me with warmth and delight.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Nick Young (Crazy Rich Asians)

Nick is straightforward, a kindhearted individual who owns a substantial amount of wealth and cherishes his girlfriend above all else, even family. It’s surprising how often men with wealth are depicted as emotionally detached, but not Nick. He’s genuinely good, and that’s what truly counts if we’re being honest.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Edward Lewis (Pretty Woman)

Oh, dear Edward, “Pretty Woman” was one of those movies I stumbled upon as a youngster and it transformed into my go-to comfort film. It’s undoubtedly one of Julia Roberts’ finest romantic comedies, but Edward epitomizes the trope “I Can Change Him.” He’s a wealthy man with a guarded heart, yet learns to cherish life and welcomes a new connection – honestly, it’s hard to believe. Moreover, Richard Gere never disappoints.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Jack Dawson (Titanic)

Good god, Jack Dawson was every teenage girl’s dream back in the 1990s. I mean, I wasn’t even born yet when Titanic was released, but I can see the appeal even now. Even if he comes from nothing, he has a good soul, is quippy and handsome, and has an appeal for breaking the rules and having fun. He’s like a good, bad boy, if that makes sense.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Nick (New Girl)

Let me clarify that I’m referring to Nick from later seasons of “New Girl”. Initially, it seemed like he needed some maturing, but once he began dating Jess and particularly when they rekindled their relationship, he became an exceptional partner, a good listener, and quite amusing. At times, a bit of humor is all you need.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Mr. Darcy (Pride And Prejudice)

Mr. Darcy was a source of great pride for my entire generation, and there’s hardly a person who isn’t captivated by him. The way he moves and expresses his affection is absolutely spellbinding. This movie perfectly encapsulates the enemies-to-lovers trope, and I find myself utterly charmed by it each and every time I watch it.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Westley (The Princess Bride)

Westley, from The Princess Bride, stands out because he knows when to listen and lead. He’s capable of stepping up to protect those dear to him, yet recognizes when to step back and learn from others. He exhibits courage without being obstinate, which is a rare trait in films, especially for male characters. More individuals like Westley are needed, and I am willing to declare it on that hill.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Luke (Gilmore Girls)

It seems Luke is a typical man who captures our hearts on TV shows at least once. What makes him exceptional is his patience – he waited eight years for the woman he loved to be ready before pursuing her. This act of waiting isn’t just the most romantic gesture you’ve heard; it’s downright heartwarming that he kept a picture of her in his wallet!

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

William Thacker (Notting Hill)

God, William Thacker from the movie Notting Hill is just such a charming fellow! I adore him immensely. The film itself is a delightful rom-com, but it’s Thacker who truly steals the show. He might trip over his own words occasionally, but he’s endearingly sweet and has this quirky, nerdy charm that really works to his advantage. Plus, Hugh Grant brings him to life so perfectly, you can hardly ask for anything more!

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Rick Grimes (The Walking Dead)

It’s Rick Grimes. The Rick Grimes. The entire The Walking Dead cast is excellent, but I don’t think any other man comes close to Rick Grimes and what he has done for his family. He’s ripped out the throats of people to protect them. He’s looked for hours to find his family. And, of course, he and Michonne’s romance is the perfect example of slow-burn. 

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Patrick Verona (10 Things I Hate About You)

Heath Ledger is undeniably a renowned actor, with numerous critically praised performances in the 2000s that left an indelible mark on us. However, it’s his portrayal of Patrick Verona in “10 Things I Hate About You” that stands out most vividly for me. He was the young man who unexpectedly fell in love and serenaded his sweetheart on the steps. Initially, he only took the role to earn some extra cash, but as we all know, he eventually succumbed to his feelings.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Hercules (Hercules)

I’d like to clarify that when I mention “Hercules,” I’m referring to Disney’s version, not the mythological one. The Greek gods weren’t exactly paragons of virtue. But Disney’s Hercules is exceptional and sets a high bar for me. This film might be undervalued, but the fact that its hero plunges into a figurative abyss to save his loved one adds to his allure.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Anthony Bridgerton (Bridgerton)

Despite Anthony Bridgerton initially having a unique appeal (let’s face it, those sideburns in Season 1 weren’t exactly flattering), he’s managed to win me over in the show Bridgerton. To be honest, the third season really sealed the deal for me. He truly cherishes his wife and is determined to bring her joy. Any man who goes that extra mile to make someone happy is definitely worth it.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Ricky Ricardo (I Love Lucy)

Ricky Ricardo, from “I Love Lucy,” serves as the model for exceptional TV spouses. Married to Lucy, he manages to cope with her mischievous plans, despite the fact that they often drive him up the wall. Yet, his love for her remains unwavering, and he provides a sense of security at home. They truly embodied a loving relationship on early television.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Jack Pearson (This Is Us)

The cast of “This Is Us” is incredibly gifted, but I must say that Milo Ventimiglia raised the bar for me when I began watching this series and saw him as Jack Pearson. He embodies a loving spouse, a devoted parent, and a diligent worker – a perfect blend. And let’s not forget the touch of his personal struggles, which gives his character an added layer of depth and complexity. I will always be a fan of Jack Pearson.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Mr. Sheffield (The Nanny)

In a roundabout manner, Mr. Sheffield embodies the lifestyle many of us dream about – working as a nanny, developing feelings for our employer, and eventually integrating ourselves into their family. However, what truly endears him to me is his ability to match wits with Fran, something I find incredibly challenging. Fran is strong-willed and self-reliant, but Mr. Sheffield never falters in supporting her, and that’s what makes my admiration for him grow.

Fictional Men From Movies And TV That Have Set My Standards Way Too High

Grey Worm (Game Of Thrones)

I didn’t think I’d be putting anyone from the Game of Thrones cast on this list, but thinking about it, I realize that Grey Worm is definitely high-ranking. He and Missandei don’t have the kind of relationship you would expect, and it’s not perfect, but there is no denying his love for her and how much he wants to keep her safe, doing anything in his power to do so. And he’s a great fighter, so there’s a plus there. It makes their relationship that much more tragic towards the end of the series. 

Having grown up watching many of these shows and movies, their charm has never faded, if anything, it’s deepened over time. I find myself yearning to relive those moments once more. So, with a glass of my favorite wine in hand and some good company by my side, I believe it’s high time for an epic marathon filled with laughter, tears, and memories that will last a lifetime.

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2024-08-23 23:38