The True Story That Inspired ‘The Vow’ Ended In Tragedy

The True Story That Inspired 'The Vow' Ended In Tragedy

As a gamer who’s spent countless hours immersed in virtual worlds and their captivating narratives, I can’t help but draw parallels between my digital escapades and the real-life story that inspired “The Vow.” The Carpenters’ tale of love, loss, and eventual heartbreak mirrors many an epic quest or heroic journey I’ve embarked upon in video games.


In February 2024, “The Vow” was the popular Channing Tatum romance movie that was dominating Netflix. This movie, which had been criticized when it first came out, finally got some well-deserved recognition years later. The story follows Paige (played by Rachel McAdams) and Leo Collins (Tatum), a loving couple whose relationship is put to the test after a car accident causes Paige to lose her memory. As a result, Leo has to try to win his wife’s love all over again, which brings to mind the plot of Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore’s “50 First Dates.

Although some may think that McAdams and Tatum’s romantic drama resembles other films, it’s essential to remember that “50 First Dates” isn’t based on true events, while “The Vow” is, though only loosely. This Michael Suscy-directed film was inspired by the real-life couple Kim and Krickitt Carpenter, who wrote a book about their marriage and its hardships. With this background in mind, let’s explore the similarities between the movie and the true story it is based upon.

The real life Vow couple’s true story

The True Story That Inspired 'The Vow' Ended In Tragedy

Kim and Krickitt Carpenter developed a connection from their very first phone call. Kim, being a university baseball coach, had called Krickitt’s sales company to order some sports equipment, and the two quickly found common ground over the phone. Their relationship continued to grow through frequent phone calls and shared interests, with Kim often making excuses to talk to her. Eventually, they met in person and got married in 1993, marking what should have been the beginning of their romantic fairy tale.

Tragically, the newlywed’s idyllic phase came to an abrupt end when their car collided with two trucks just weeks after their wedding. As a result, Krickitt slipped into a coma, losing her memory and unable to recognize her husband. Afterward, she moved back in with her parents, but eventually, they resumed their relationship and renewed their vows in 1996. Although the dreamy romance they once shared didn’t return, they persevered, started a family together, and had two children.

In the early ’90s, Kim and Krickett tied the knot with dreams of a fairy-tale marriage. Their story, unfortunately, did not unfold as expected, garnering mainstream attention instead through appearances on talk shows and a published book titled “The Vow: The Kim and Krickitt Carpenter Story,” released in 2000.

The Vow couple’s story didn’t end well

The True Story That Inspired 'The Vow' Ended In Tragedy

The determination shown by Kim and Krickitt Carpenter to sustain their marriage following such a significant upheaval is truly commendable. For 25 years, they stood firm on their marital promises, a testament to their commitment that is particularly striking given the need for them to essentially rebuild their relationship from the ground up. Regrettably, the Carpenters parted ways and divorced in 2018 after Kim confessed to an affair, a truth he did not conceal.

Krickitt told Inside Edition, “I didn’t expect Kim to be unfaithful; it went against the lifelong promise we made to one another. It was a surprise since our commitment to each other was strong and our vow was deep.

Regardless of the sour end to their marriage, Krickitt openly expressed no regrets about their shared past. Two precious children from the union are a constant source of gratitude for her, and she cherishes the moments spent with Kim that bring her joy in retrospect. Interestingly enough, “The Vow” presents a more hopeful outlook on the possibility of everlasting happiness.

How was The Vow movie different from the real story?

The True Story That Inspired 'The Vow' Ended In Tragedy

In ‘The Vow’, creative liberties have been taken with the true story of Kim and Krickitt Carpenter, so viewers should be aware that it offers more entertainment than historical accuracy. The characters in this film bear little resemblance to their real-life counterparts, having different names, professions, and personalities altogether. Additionally, the movie’s conclusion strays from the true story’s tragic ending, following a more conventional Hollywood romance arc.

Originally, Kim functioned as a baseball coach and Krickitt was a sales representative. They first encountered each other over the phone. Contrastingly, the movie portrays its main characters, Paige and Leo, as artistic individuals who met in person initially; Paige desires to be a sculptor but left law school behind, while Leo is a record studio owner with a passion for authentic music. In contrast, Kim and Krickitt were deeply religious, but faith plays no role in the beliefs of Paige and Leo in “The Vow.

In the storyline of “The Vow,” there’s a secondary plot where Paige finds herself drawn to her former partner, Jeremy (Scott Speedman), despite being married to Leo at the time. This involves a kiss in Jeremy’s office. However, it’s important to note that in reality, Kim was unfaithful. Both real and fictional couples eventually divorce, but “The Vow” concludes with Paige and Leo reconciling, suggesting they may achieve their perfect life together in the end.

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2024-10-20 04:02