90 Day Fiances Messiest Breakups, Ranked

90 Day Fiances Messiest Breakups, Ranked

As someone who has closely followed the journeys of various couples on 90 Day Fiancé, I’ve seen my fair share of tumultuous relationships. Yet, few have left me as disheartened as that of Jesse Meester and Darcey Silva. Having watched their back-and-forth throughout multiple seasons, I can’t help but feel a deep sadness for the pain they inflicted on each other.


People have a deep affection for romantic relationships, which is why countless numbers of us eagerly wait for new heartwarming romance movies and shows, or revisit old favorites. Since the beginning of the 21st century, there has been an abundance of dating reality programs that let us peek into people’s journeys to find their ideal partner. The immediate bonds and innocent beginnings of two individuals falling in love are captivating and heartwarming. Shows like 90 Day Fiancé and its various offshoots, for instance, illustrate this concept well.

A notable feature of this reality program is its abundance of drama. The series focuses on a romantic duo, often consisting of an American and a foreigner, aiming to bridge the distance of their past long-distance relationship. They usually accomplish this by getting married within ninety days, or else the non-American partner must depart from the country.

Some couples on the show have built robust and thriving relationships, whereas others, according to some viewers, have not. The ending of these relationships can become quite contentious, with TLC capturing every moment on camera. Therefore, we present to you the most chaotic breakups in the reality series “90 Day Fiancé.”

12 Corey and Evelin

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 3

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In the reality TV show “90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,” the American contestant relocates to be with their foreign partner. For instance, Corey went to live with his girlfriend Evelin in Ecuador. Before they started filming, they had a significant past, marked by a previous split. During this period, Corey explored South America and met someone with whom he had a fleeting romance. However, the past continued to haunt their relationship, as Evelin remained unable to forgive and forget.

Does She Even Like Him?

Some viewers were puzzled by Evelin’s intense scrutiny of Corey’s alleged infidelity, as they believed the two had already ended their relationship. The situation became even more perplexing when doubts arose about Evelin’s own faithfulness, although she generally dismisses such accusations.

Corey wasn’t an angel in their relationship, as Evelin would attest at times. She tried to make Corey leave her home and ignored him completely at others. In contrast, Corey refused to sign the divorce papers despite Evelin’s repeated requests. Their relationship was complicated and contentious, but they managed to heal their wounds enough to have a child together.

11 Yve and Mohamed

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé Season 9

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As a gamer observing the reality TV show, I couldn’t help but notice that Yve and Mohamed seemed to have some significant differences from the get-go. Yve was an American woman dating a much younger Egyptian man, Mohamed. Their cultural backgrounds clashed, with Yve embracing a more liberal lifestyle that Mohamed found hard to accept. These cultural shocks are nothing new on this show, but the tension between them was palpable from the beginning.

Several spectators opposed Mohamed’s views on Yve’s clothing choices, while the initial encounter with Yve’s friend raised concerns among viewers. The friends seemed intent on provoking Mohamed through intrusive and inappropriate behavior. Unacceptable.

In It for One Thing

As the weeks passed, onlookers grew puzzled by the apparent relationship between Yve and Mohamed. Some speculated it was an attempt to change Yve’s religious beliefs or to control her actions, clothing, and speech. However, it became increasingly clear that Mohamed’s affections didn’t stem from a genuine appreciation of Yve as a person. The revelation that Mohamed would seek another sponsor if their wedding was delayed only fueled the rumors further.

I was unfortunately involved in a complicated situation with Mohamed. He was deceiving me, and to make things worse, he confided in another woman that he intended to divorce me once he obtained his green card. This revelation left me feeling shocked and dismayed.

10 Mike and Natalie

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé Season 7

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Mike and Natalie had a promising future together, making their split all the more painful. During Mike’s visit to Ukraine to meet Natalie in her home land, their interactions were generally positive. However, they still faced challenges, such as differing views on starting a family and advancing their relationship at an accelerated pace. These disagreements loomed large as Natalie prepared to move to America.

If Natalie assumed that living in Washington meant residing in the bustling city of Seattle, she was in for a surprise with Mike’s quiet and isolated town.

Just Say How You Feel

During disputes, Natalie reacted strongly and quickly, while Mike responded by withdrawing. These behaviors significantly affected their relationship, leading some to believe they could have found a resolution. Regrettably, they weren’t able to do so. The turning point came when Natalie removed her engagement ring during an argument. This action left a deep impression on Mike, causing him to adopt a new pattern of shutting down completely. As a result, their lines of communication started to fracture, much like the wood he once chopped in the woods.

In the offshoot series, “The Single Life,” Natalie made an appearance while staying in touch with Mike. Could there be a chance they rekindle their relationship?

9 Darcey and Tom

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

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In some instances on “90 Day Fiancé,” certain actors appear only once, while others continue to captivate the production team. A prime example of this is Darcey Silva from Connecticut. Avid fans often label Darcey as particularly affectionate towards marriage, regardless of a relationship’s success or failure.

In the spin-off show “Before the 90 Days,” we previously witnessed Darcey’s stormy romance. Subsequently, we were given a glimpse of her new attempt at love with Tom, who is from England.

No Visible Spark

From the very beginning, I found their relationship quite intriguing. There were classic Darcey signs of a proposal after just a few hours of knowing each other, but it was unclear to me why. It wasn’t evident that Tom truly felt attracted to her, and their differences were glaringly obvious in every episode.

I’ll rephrase that in a more casual and first-person perspective as if I were a gamer: When things weren’t going well between Darcey and me, Tom decided to distance himself and started seeing someone else without making it clear if we were really over. It was a rough ending, and even people who didn’t like Darcey agreed that Tom wasn’t very nice during our breakup conversation. He bluntly asked her if she had gained weight. Looking back, I believe our relationship didn’t have a chance from the start.

8 Ed and Rose

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 4

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Ed or Big Ed is likely one of the most criticized individuals in this show. In “Before the 90 Days,” his romantic interest was Rose, a Filipino woman around thirty years his junior. Despite a significant communication gap, love can often overcome such obstacles. Sadly, that wasn’t true in this situation.

From the very beginning, Rose seemed uneasy and ill-at-ease in her interaction with Ed. Ed, on the other hand, came off as overbearing, making comments that undermined or embarrassed Rose.

He Said, She Said

Towards the end of their relationship, there were accusations that Rose and her family were conspiring to deceive Ed. This issue came under intense scrutiny once Ed disclosed he had undergone a vasectomy and expressed his lack of desire for children, as opposed to Rose’s wish for a family. At the reunion show, both parties insisted that the other was still reaching out to them.

Based on Ed’s perspective, Rose expressed a desire to reconcile with him. However, she defends her actions by stating that she was just being friendly. Yet, things became more complicated when Ed’s daughter entered the picture. Observe their relationship to understand why Ed, despite receiving only lukewarm responses from viewers, remains a regular on the show.

7 Nicole and Azan

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé Season 4

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Nicole went to Morocco with high hopes for her relationship with Azan, despite her family’s doubts. She envisioned him becoming a loving partner and father figure to her young son. At the outset, their connection seemed much like that of two kids playing at marriage.

Despite uncertain finances and careers, as well as differences in perspective regarding child-rearing and other matters, Azan remained optimistic about their mutual future.

Was Either Ready for a Relationship?

As a gamer observing their story, I couldn’t help but notice how complicated this couple’s situation seemed. We all knew they kept secrets from their loved ones about starting a business together. From an outsider’s perspective, it appeared that Nicole was more invested in the relationship than Azan was. But what led Nicole to be unfaithful? And when Azan declared he was “fifty-five percent” attracted to Nicole, I couldn’t help but feel uneasy for them both.

During that brief period, a particularly chaotic rift occurred between them when Azan discovered Nicole had been unfaithful. While he needed some time apart, Nicole persistently contacted him through phone calls and videos. Among those messages was a recording of her daughter referring to him as “daddy.” Was she being kind or manipulative?

6 Colt and Larissa

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé Season 6

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Colt, or “Colty” as some call him, had a complicated connection with Larissa, his Brazilian companion. Initially, Colt appeared more understanding. Although he was somewhat quirky and appeared overly reliant on his mom Debbie, living with her, he seemed like a decent individual. However, Larissa gave off an abrasive impression.

Starting from the instant she stepped out of the plane, she grumbled about various things and gave an impression of being overly focused on material possessions. However, as we continued observing their relationship develop, our perspective started to shift.

What’s the Truth?

Colt’s life felt out of his grasp due in part to his domineering mother, leading him to lash out at Larissa. He made unwarranted calls to the authorities regarding her and threatened her immigration status. Though the validity of these actions is debated by some viewers, a divorce appeared imminent. The arrival of another woman (not just Debbie) served as the last straw.

5 Danielle and Mohamed

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé Season 2

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In a chatroom, Danielle from Ohio encountered a good-looking man living far away. This situation could be the beginning of a romantic tale or a frightening experience. For Danielle, it leaned more toward the latter. After their engagement, Mohamed, who had recently moved to the United States from Tunisia, set firm boundaries regarding physical contact. While some might attribute this to his cultural background or personal inclinations, others questioned whether he truly was attracted to her.

So Much Toxicity

Mohamed was not in this relationship. He was distant, acted shady, and started seeing another woman he claimed was just a friend. Even after they said I did, his behavior didn’t change. Despite this, it was Danielle who came out as the villain this season. She was pushy and didn’t respect Mohamed’s boundaries, no matter what his reasons for them were.

During their separation, she made attempts to have him removed from the country, bothered him persistently, and tracked down his residence in order to confront him. TLC may have found her loud, scripted protests outside his house amusing at nighttime, but in truth, her actions were reprehensible and chaotic.

4 Angela and Michael

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

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Angela and Michael present a challenging dynamic to observe, mainly because of Angela’s behavior. An older American woman, she found herself in a relationship with Nigerian man named Michael. During her trip to Nigeria to see him, signs of Angela’s jealousy began to emerge.

Michael wasn’t an ideal partner, as he confessed to having been unfaithful multiple times. Further investigations revealed more instances of infidelity. Moreover, his traditional beliefs about gender roles significantly influenced how he viewed relationships.

This Isn’t Entertainment

Despite these explanations, Angela’s abusive actions are still unjustified. Over time, her behavior worsened, leaving viewers questioning why TLC didn’t intervene. The pair had several disagreements during filming, but the most chaotic occurred when Angela unexpectedly showed up in Nigeria to confront Michael.

While under the influence of alcohol, she and her friend attacked his house, destroyed his car, shouted for him to come out, and eventually physically harmed him. However, adding complexity to the situation, the show’s storyline portrayed Angela as the aggrieved party who was justified in carrying out most of these actions.

3 Jorge and Anfisa

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé Season 4

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In season four, Jorge and Anfisa were a featured couple. Anfisa, a young Russian woman, was often described as being “beyond Jorge’s class,” yet she was drawn to Jorge’s promises of comfort and luxury. It was common knowledge that Anfisa had a strong desire for wealth, which made Jorge’s frequent lies about his income all the more puzzling.

Based on my observation and understanding of the situation, I believe that Anfisa and her older American partner form a divisive couple due to their contrasting motivations for being together. While some viewers sympathized with Anfisa’s straightforwardness in expressing what many people were thinking, others saw it as manipulative or insincere.

Time to Move On

Despite Anfisa’s blunt straightforwardness, this couple is not just about her harsh honesty towards Jorge. The audience found Jorge unpleasant and deceived Anfisa, leading them to overlook the harm she inflicted on him. Instances of keying his car, hacking his phone, and physically assaulting him were witnessed on screen. One wonders, what transpired when the film crew departed?

In the final episodes, their relationship on the show seemed to be disintegrating gradually as they took digs at one another, apparently trying to preserve some dignity before parting ways.

2 Darcey and Jesse

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 1

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Darcey has appeared on multiple seasons of “90 Day Fiance,” even a spin-off with her identical twin sister. One past relationship that still draws attention is the one she had with Jesse, a younger Dutch man known for his temper. Some question if Darcey genuinely cared for Jesse or was merely attracted to his appearance. Regardless, there seemed to be an underlying connection that kept them returning to each other. Their disputes escalated frequently, resulting in heated arguments and tears.

Cut It Out

The most notorious argument between them occurred when Jesse was getting ready to meet Darcey’s daughters for the first time. It’s amazing how something as simple as asking someone to cut the meat diagonally could escalate things so dramatically! In an unscheduled confrontation, Jesse asserted that Darcey had thrown a shoe at him and was threatening to contact the authorities.

Their relationship on the show wasn’t straightforward; they had multiple breaks and gets-back together. It’s challenging to identify an exact point for their “real” split. An episode where Jesse accused Darcey of being a criminal and an alcoholic, left both the viewers and Darcey uncomfortable. For the best, it would be healthier if they ended things between them permanently.

1 Paul and Karine

Got Together During 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 1

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At the outset of Paul and Karine’s relationship, most people would have been surprised by the impending troubles for this couple. When Paul initially met Karine in Brazil, their first encounter was marked by an argument over him requesting her to undergo an STD and pregnancy test. This minor disagreement served as a prelude to their struggle in resolving disputes.

In a forthcoming episode, a dispute concluded with Paul becoming lost among the trees, and Karine falling victim to muggers in her attempt to locate him. Additionally, Paul had concealed his past criminal record from her. The program chronicled their miscarriage; however, the emotional bond they shared failed to endure.

A Quick Decline

After the end of their turbulent season, many issues arose between them. Later on, they discovered they were expecting another child together. However, during the reunion special, Paul raised doubts about the paternity. Similarly, Karine seemed overly familiar with certain individuals in Brazil. Contrary to their hopes, having a baby did not resolve their conflicts. Regrettably, allegations of domestic violence have led authorities to intervene in their personal matters on multiple occasions for both parties.

In 2024, they are parents to two young ones, but unfortunately, those children have been removed from their care due to instability in their home situation. Sadly, this contentious divorce affects not just the adults, but also the blameless children involved.

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2024-07-24 04:02